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May 2009

When to End a Long-Term Relationship

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When do you hit the ejection button to end a long term relationship? Well if your crazy in love then obviously that thought does not even occur, but perhaps it should.

Relationships in where one person does not feel as strongly as the other are not that uncommon.  Truthfully, it is one of the reasons why people break up to begin with. So how do you know if that’s the relationship you find yourself in? A long term relationship that is heading towards engagement and marriage, but secretly you may suspect your boyfriend or girlfriend of not being truly madly in love with you.Well keep reading and see if the below describes you. Also, if upon reading this you realize that your the YOUR the person that has second thoughts, that thinks to themselves time to time: “I don’t love them as much as they love me”. Kill your complatency and do yourself, and your current girlfriend/boyfriend a favor, and break it off. No sense in having two unhappy people in the long run.

Is your relationship just average? Nothing really to complain about, nothing to get excited about. Just plain old average. What is average you may be wondering? Average is this: You have fun spending time together, your family thinks your boyfriend/girlfriend is nice. You two get along for the most part, you don’t really fight, everything is just bumping along uneventfully. A 7 out of 10 lets say. So what do you do? Stay or go? Well it is a 7 out of 10 because one half is in love and the other half is not. If both sides were in love it would be a 10 out of 10, and if both were not in love, the relationship would be over. So If your the half that is NOT in love, then being in an ambivalent state is the worst: Read More…