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June 2009

Life Sucks then you Die

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The tag line for this site is “find love and be happy”. A simple and descriptive line, but make no mistake the finding love part is difficult, and holding on to that feeling of happiness has been a burning struggle for people for a millenia. Revolutions have occurred because people were unhappy with their lot in life. Falling in love with someone else is easily one of the most satisfying and fulfilling parts of life. It can lead to a powerful sensation of completeness and happiness. To the point where you don’t need anything else because you don’t want anything else. I hope everyone reading this to experience it. So why is it such a challenge for some people? Finding that love puts you on a surprising path of personal growth. Read More…

Does he love Me?

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Girls worry about their relationship among other things regularly, asking themselves constantly in their head, does he love me?  From a male perspective, it is common to not understand this thought process since men do not worry until their are visual signs of a problem. If everything is cooking like it always has, no need to assume their is a fire in the kitchen. Girls on the other hand worry about a fire in the kitchen. What if this happens, what if that happens IE does he love me? Does he still love me? Is everything between us alright? It is YOUR JOB as a the man in the relationship to be reassure her of how you feel about her on a REGULAR basis. Yes, it may seem logical that when the day comes you marry and say “I do” that your professing you love to the world about how you feel about them, that now the deal is done and your off the hook. You are poorly mistaken.  The deal is never done for girls. From my experience their tends to be an underlining insecurity with girls,  ALL girls, no matter how attractive they are, no matter how confident they may be, no matter how good the relationship. This worrying nature confuses men, for example:

  • When she asks “do you love me”, why ask? You didn’t do anything to indicate other-wise.
  • Wants to talk, talk, talk about your relationship, a topic not  enjoyed by too many guys.
  • Takes your need for space as indication that you don’t feel as strongly for her, or that your tired of her. Read More…

Facebook dating ads are bringing back lame advertising

facebook dating ads

With the evolution of the Internet, so has evolved advertising.  The advent of web 2.0 is the rise of social media companies like Facebook; which are in a unique position to engage their audience with more sophisticated advertising due to the abundance of data they have on their users. So why the heck  is Facebook and many other website showing such lame advertising ?

Short answer is sex sells, and Facebook has a tremendous ad inventory to sell. So apparently their prepared to settle for this crap!  A perfect example are the two ads below: Read More…