Super Awesome Dating

Do yourself a favor and kill your online dating profile once you commit to someone. Why do you need to have a profile on a dating site if your someones boyfriend or girlfriend? This whole “not single, not looking” business is a bit silly to me and I think I understand the motives behind it, but I still think it is silly. Correct me if you disagree, but I believe the motives are: 1) Keep it as a backup plan just in case things don’t workout and 2) Not being able to make that mental transition from being single, to being in a relationship and 3) Being to lazy to create a new profile if you delete your old one.

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Lets talk about interpersonal relationships and how they work. Interpersonal simply means your relationship with other people. Could be romantic (which is the theme of this site of course) could be friendship, or could be business among other things. We all have a variety of interpersonal relationships just by being alive; and the one thing I have come to understand is that the relationships you have with other people is also the same relationship you have with yourself. Wait, what? Let me say that again, the relationship you have with other people is also the relationship you have with yourself. They are one in the same. Seriously. This might not make sense to you so let me explain.

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Oh boy awesome hotel workout routines! I love working out, don’t you? Of course not, that’s why it has “work” in the word because that’s what it is, work. OK, maybe some of you like working out. I have lots of friends that run as part of their daily routine. It is so ingrained in them that they can not start their day until they do it. Like taking a shower for the rest of us I guess. Working out does release stress, makes you sleep better, makes you look better,and give you more energy during the day. Put it that way, why don’t we do it more? Is it because were lazy? For some, yes I think its rooted in pure laziness, but I think for the majority of us it is because no one works 9-5, we work 8-6. Then its time to make dinner, then its 7:30 at night and I just want to relax. Ill work out tomorrow.

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When I woke up this morning with my desire to share my thoughts on this site I started writing on my sexy little net-book about how to “let go” after a breakup. Obviously this is now titled let it be after a breakup. Here is why. “Let it go” implies taking a passive approach, and if your anything like me, I am never passive in love or in life. If I simply told you how to just let them go I think I would be leading you astray, since I would be telling you to perform active forgetting towards a very strong emotion. Trying to actively forget a strong emotion is impossible, you can not do it. Over time emotional intensity falls, but seriously, you can not just magically forget how you feel towards something over night, their is no ebook or 10 easy steps you can read, buy, or take. It simply takes time, so since you will not be forgetting any time soon, why pretend otherwise? Hence, lets talk about how to let it be after a breakup and NOT how to let it go since any strong emotion be it anger or love sticks in your mind for some time and you just can not forget it. Like thinking about a purple cow with black spots. See, now I got you thinking about what a a purple cow with black spots. Sorry about that. Moving on.

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Getting over your broken heart is lonely miserable business. Ive been their, you’ve been their. We’ve all been their. Well OK, not a ALL of us have been their, but definitely most of us have. This little piece of Super Awesome Dating is dedicated to all those with broken hearts right now searching the Internets for easy action steps to feel better, or worse, those who are searching the web for tips on how to win back their ex. You know, the same ex who just tore out their heart and let it burn. The pain of heartbreak feels kind of like a heart attack does it not? Not to say I have ever experience a heart attack (I’m only in my 20’s now people) but if I did have a mild heart attack, I think I know how it would feel. What about you?

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