Super Awesome Dating

I covered how to talk to girls, lets go over how to ask a girl out. Now for many guys out their this may seem like a silly question, (aka just ask her out stupid), but lot’s of guys need help with this and are searching for answers. One of the main goals of Super Awesome Dating is to get guys dating girls, and not just hanging out with them like your one of her girlfriends.

YOU WILL BE REJECTED

Read that a few times and internalize it. You will be rejected, you will be rejected, one more time, you will be rejected. Girls within minutes of meeting you will have already made up their mind about weather or not your date worthy for them. Most of the time, your not. Sorry, happens to every man, myself included. Don’t take it too much to heart. Girls behave like eggs, men behave like sperm. Girls genuinely are much more selective about their partners than men are. They have more to risk since their the ones who are saddled with child. As such, when you ask a girl out, more than likely you will be rejected. Yes, your not good looking enough, or your too fat, or too short, she doesn’t like the way you dress, or the sound of your voice, or the color of your hair, or how you come off, or she doesn’t date Black guys, she doesn’t like Asian men, she only dates white guys with green eyes. Whatever. Be a man and a gentleman about it, not a deeply hurt and offended baby who needs their bottle warmed.

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So, if you want to learn how to talk to girls, follow the advice I have given. Step outside from the person you perceive yourself to be, and act like that person you want to be. Try new things, test them out, see how they work for you. Every guy is different and you have to be yourself most importantly and embrace who you are. If your a serious intellectual, then don’t pretend to be a frat boy. Have fun at this as it will be a learning experience for you. Do things you never would normally do. Just don’t lose sight that this process should be fun. Go out and have fun. Don’t go out for the sole reason to meet girls, go out to have fun. Meet girls as a one off of having fun. Internalize the big picture steps of what I have told you, so when that girl comes by and your like “who is that?” You will be equipped with the skills to talk to her, that is how you talk to girls.

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What do women want? If you had asked me that a few years back I probably would have given you some jaded answer like: “Girls say they want a nice smart guy, but they really only care about looks” or “douche bag touch guy” or another favorite of mine “guys that play in bands”. I was in a transition myself, becoming the man I wanted to be. Not really understanding why some girls were into me, and why the ones I really like, the ones I tried really hard to get their attention, passed me over without a second thought. The way some women can be so mean and heartless, the way they don’t appreciate how nice and attentive you think you are being to them can make you really angry. You start to think it is unfair, girls don’t appreciate a good man, they don’t care if a guy is a gentleman or not, they couldn’t spot a good man if he fell right on top of them; and lastly, what a girl says she whats, and what she actually gos for are two COMPLETELY different things; and you know what? Your right!

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The breakup starts when the battle ends. Breakup warfare. I can guarantee you anyone who is currently your “ex” you had a fight with. Maybe a big one, maybe a small one

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I did not have to convince her that she should like me, she just does; that’s how it is. As you will read, she would like to get over me because she is afraid of having strong feelings for me. Those feeling exist because on previous occasions I demonstrated qualities in a man she liked. The main one being confidence: That your happy with your life, your not looking to fill a void, you genuinely don’t care if she likes your or doesn’t, your just here to take a sincere interest in someone else. Here is the email conversation I had with someone

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